I’ve been going with both barrels.
|11.Jan.2008I’ve been going with both barrels for a while and though some may call that hectic, I call it job security – I’m mighty happy about it.
However, a few of you have emailed to ask me when I’m gonna be starting back up with WordPress Wednesdays. I’ve been giving it some thought and thought that I might should do that soon. As in, very soon. As in next week.
So, look for a WordPress Wednesdays post on the 16th.
Now, for that other purple elephant in the room. My…um…weight posts. Noticed they’ve been gone have ya? Well, let’s just say that I fell off the wagon. I’m gonna be straightforward with you. Are you ready?
- I did not renew my gym membership.
- I have not weighed since before Christmas.
- Any weight I lost is right back with me.
- I have absolutely no plans to launch a huge weight loss campaign for 2008.
- Health and balance is definitely something I want, but I’m still not there.
Do I plan to be overweight forever? No. Do I think it is okay to ignore something so important? No. Do I want to talk about it right now? No. Is that selfish of me – oh heck, yes.
Now that THAT is over, tell me…what big thing are you putting off?
And? WHAT ARE YOU DOING? While I’m over here designing websites and blogs, I’d sure like to know what you guys are up to your noses in. Makes me know I’m not alone in the whole “Trying to be a supermom” gig.









36 Comments
Meghan
I’ve been wondering about the weight posts!
Having gastric bypass in 11 days, starting a PhD program in August, and presenting at my first professional academic conference in a month. Woo!!
However, I have 8 million books and articles of clothing to sell on ebay, and I’ve been putting that off for about, oh, 6 months. Maybe this weekend….
Tina
Big thing I’m putting off…making time to work out. There’s no “finding” it, I get that, but I don’t want to do what I need to do (which is get up an hour earlier and just get it done and go to bed an hour earlier). So yeah, understand you there.
What am I doing? Getting over not being able to go on a trip to Kenya (but really, I’m ok with that, we’re postponing it to next year). Preparing to start teaching a General Biology class to college students (I start Feb. I used to teach High School, excited about the change to teach college!) Trying to organize things in the last two weeks before I start teaching. Since the trip is off a year, that means any thoughts of another baby are over a year away, and now that baby turns two, I’m not so sure I WANT to go through all that baby stuff again. So I’m weeding out all but favorite baby stuff to sell at a spring garage sale in hopes of creating more space in our tiny house. And I’m reading blogs. :-D
Shannon
Definitely putting off exercising on the whole. Currently putting off cleaning the apartment. One of these days I’ll be back on track…
Up to my nose in full time work and full time school and full time homework while attempting to get semi-interesting blogs in in the meantime.
Rebecca
I am getting ready to switch to WordPress, so I was excited to see this post on the Blog 365 feed. :)
frugalmom
Knee deep in having a house built and making all the decisions that go along with that. Knee deep in stuff that I need to sort since we have just moved into a rental property while waiting for the house to be done. Knee deep in just plain stuff…moved from an almost 3000 sq ft home to a rental that is about 1000 sq ft, maybe.
Putting off going thru all this stuff. Looking in the garage and having an anxiety attack when I see all the stuff unorganized and spilling out all over….other than that? Just taking care of the 3 kids and trying to maintain my sanity as we trip all over each other….and the toddler is loving the fact that he gets free reign of the stairs…not something he could do in the other house.
Lanna
I’m putting off everything house-cleaning related. And it shows. Between the months of first trimester blahs/exhaustion/constant nausea and then getting sick after Christmas, the house looks like hell. And I’m the one that can/will put it back together.
I’m *so* not supermom – I’m calling it good if we’re all still alive at the end of the day. Even if I’ve locked myself alone in the bedroom by the time hubby comes home.
Annika
Here’s what I have been doing: baking, shopping, planning, making things for my friend’s baby shower tomorrow; planning a really nice dinner for my husband’s birthday, which also happens to be tomorrow, and scrambling to finish a knitted present for him; trying to keep my toddler alive and in dry diapers.
Here’s what I have not been doing: everything else.
Um, except reading and writing blogs. I seem to have somehow found time for that.
Nancy
What am I doing?
I’m still reigning as Queen of Procrastination!
jamie
Oh man, my to do list is ten miles long right now. Most of it crafty things, but those crafty things make us money!
And, we’re going to be moving soon.
Give me strength.
c
Currently: enjoying your blog and your “realness”.
Good luck in all you tackle. Thanks for making time to share your journeys with us.
Steph
I wondered about the WordPress Wednesdays but not the weight loss. I figured weight loss is way more private than mad coding skillz.
Also? I think you’re beautiful just as you are. (And before anyone gets started on the health benefits of losing weight, ask OMSH about her co-morbidities — there aren’t any. Not saying losing weight isn’t a postive thing, just saying it’s possible for someone to be heavy *and healthy.)
witchypoo
Me? I’m perfect. That scale? It lies, I tell you, it lies!
Gliding through motherhood
Just found your blog the other day (because you said you liked Outlander :) and really enjoying it.
I didn’t know you used to have weight loss posts but I SO hear you on the issue as a whole… my weight loss posts have also disappeared. Oh well. Working full time, volunteering on a committee, having a business on the side and being a mom are enough… cleaning, cooking and being thin just don’t seem to be priorities lately ;)
Mrs. Wilson
Over here? I’m TRYING to be supermom too!! I’m putting of cleaning my WHOLE house – all 3000 square feet of it. It’s not mine. We’re living in my in-laws house (WITHOUT THEM) and it’s going on the market soon to hopefully sell by June 30th. It goes on the market in 18 days, which means I have 17 days to get it in STELLAR condition!
But I’m putting it off. Because I have no will power. Which is why I’m also not at the gym!
mamalang
I’ve found my motivation to move…we’ve had a spurt of nice weather, and I’ve walked at lunch. I’ve brought somewhat healthy lunches, and I’ve taken my kids to the gym twice this week. I miss the veg time, but my 14 year old is cruising into obesity one day at a time, and I want to bring it to a screeching halt. That’s my motivation…I don’t want for her, what I’ve had all my life.
It’s been one week, and I have to say that it’s been easier than I thought. It’s a lot more fun with her there to pick…I mean talk to.
Other than that, trying to find things to blog about every day. My head aches just thinking about it today. Oh yeah, and work and take care of the fam and clean the house and all that other boring stuff we have to do.
And while I wondered about the weight thing, I wasn’t going to ask. We’re here if you need to vent, otherwise…it’s your own business. Good luck!
Angella
I am *always* trying to be a supermom.
And failing. Miserably.
Sigh.
Kristin
12/17/07 started “Puke & Poop Fest” at our house. (10 year old son, twin 2 year olds, myself and hubby–BAD stomach virus) Terrible through New Years Day. Then cold/cough/ear infections/pnemonia hit and it’s still going strong.
I’ve had time to do nOtHiNg..
She Likes Purple
I understand your desire to lose the weight and your realization that you need to but you’re just not there yet and don’t want to talk about it. It’s the exact same place I’m in.
mothergoosemouse
Selfish? Not in my book.
And what have I been doing? Well, I’ll have a new baby noshing on me in less than three weeks. So naturally I’ve been reorganizing my CDs, scrubbing the floor by hand, and lifting heavy boxes.
bethany actually
I am with Mrs. Wilson–I’ve been doing the bare minumum of housecleaning lately, just enough so we’re not living in squalor. Ha! OK, it’s not that bad, but we do need to do some big things (have carpets cleaned, reorganize closets, etc.) and we’ve been putting them off big-time.
What I have been doing is planning our trip to Texas in February!
Nancy
I’m putting off something really big – quitting smoking. I want to quit for good this year and I know I can do it, but I don’t know if I could stick with it while I’m still in school. That’s what I’m up to now; school, school, school, and a full-time job, plus the super-mom gig. :)
Mr. OMSH
Well if it makes you feel better, I have renewed my gym membership, lost those 25 unwanted pounds, am able to actually see and count the 6-pack abs my fat was insulating for me, completed my re-roofing project, finished restoring my Chevelle, ordered my new Schwinn road bicycle for the upcoming triathlon, reseeded the yard, and finished the cross stitch project I began before last Christmas.
Not bad for New Year’s resolutions getting done huh? And it’s only January 12th.
Oh wait, one resolution I forgot–that I have not finished yet. Tell the truth.
Linda
Let’s see … I am up to my eyeballs in tax season. I work for a company that develops, produces, ships, and supports its own Income Tax Software. I am a Client Relationship Manager which means I manage larger companies or multi-site offices. This time of year everything else goes out the window … laundry MAY get done on Sunday after Church … housework MAY get done while the laundry is being worked on … fast food restaurants get rich off me and my family cause I dang sure ain’t gonna be cooking and the one I believe who suffers the most from this busy time of year is Lil Man … which in turn means that even less is going to get done cause when I ain’t at the office I’m gonna be enjoying him!
Aileen
My husband is out at sea at the moment on a short patrol, so I’ve been working very hard to stay sane.
I’ve been chauffeuring the little ones to school, therapy and dance.
I’ve been gestating.
I’ve been gaining weight… I am ashamed to tell you how much in the last month. Lets just say I blame the holidays! All the cakes and pies and cookies! It’s not MY fault!
I’m thinking of taking up the banjo or harmonica. OK… not really.. but maybe I’ll teach myself to hum…
We’ve been doing arts and crafts up the ying yang!
Meg
I’ve been putting off organizing boxes full of photos that my grandma and mom have given me (grandma, because she died 2 years ago, and mom because she remarried, moved and doesn’t have room in her house for her old memories from her previous life, I guess).
I was lucky that a switch flipped inside my head and said Meg – you have got to lose a few pounds! I’ve been compulsively counting my calories and logging my exercise and body measurements at myfooddiary.com. Having to ‘fess up to the web program seems to keep me honest. Oh, and that trip to the Bahamas with my inlaws in mid-Feb? That’s a motivator too.
Don’t worry OMSH, you’ll get there too. It will “click” when you are ready.
Vanessa
Hello elephant in the closet. You stay right over there, k? Mine is definitely wedding planning. I’ve already come thisclose to saying “Expletive this!” (keeping the family rating, folks)and eloping to Vegas. Married by Elvis is sounding really good, while people drone in my ear about china patterns.
What I’ve been doing instead is travelling. My fiance plays for the NHL and I work for the team (did I mention that “fraternization” with members of the team is about “prohibited”? *giggles*), and December was our heaviest road month of the entire season…right around Christmas. Who does that? The NHL, thats who. So that’s what I’ve been up to.
But dead seriously, Her Majesty OMSH, can you do a wedding post to help me keep my sanity? Puhllllleeeeeeeeeease? I’d so take tips from you, and any other married readers, on how to get married and still have all my hair on my head come the day of the wedding. :)
OMSH
Did y’all read Mr. OMSH’s post? THAT is why I love the liar.
So anyway…Vanessa, please don’t slay me, but my mother literally planned my entire wedding while I was finishing up my last semester of college. I don’t have any tips except have someone else do it for you??
I am sooooooo enjoying reading this comment thread. Thanks for all the input. We are all doing so much. Multi-tasking Mothers of the world, REJOICE!
Gnightgirl
After a very frenzied ’07, finding myself president of a NFP, and throwing 3 fundraisers in 4 months, I’m getting back to doing a million things I’ve put off: getting my home and garage back in order, rescheduling the pap smear I canceled 6 months ago, consolidating a few credit cards at a lower interest rate, and finally delivering a wedding gift I bought for friends that got married in October.
Claire in CA
Hmmm, I’m feeling pretty inferior after reading *all* the above comments. I am anxiety-ridden just looking around my very messy house, and anticipating a possible move – how in the world will I get this place ready to sell?!!!
I have lost 35 lbs since April, but it took me years to get the motivation. I still have 35 or so to go.
That’s my only accomplishment. I’d rather be on the computer reading blogs, reading a book, watching a movie, etc. My husband is a saint.
Liz C.
Vanessa… Elope. Seriously. Not to Vegas, but just go get married with the parents and siblings to witness, and go out for a nice lunch afterward. It’s SO much less stress, and going on 12 years later, I’m still Very, Very Married.
(Technically, I don’t know if it’s eloping if you have your parents to witness, but it sure cuts down on the crying and the fits afterward.)
What Amn’t I Doing?
A zillion little sewing projects, finishing a quilt for my bed, and a research project I’ve been trying to wrap up for two years.
Instead, I’m doing a Lot of Laundry on a daily basis, and pretending I’m a Jersey Cow, producing milk for a very greedy newborn.
(But, said husband of nearly 12 years is planning a nifty Mother’s Day gift this year… a large silver cow-bell with all our children’s names and birthdates engraved on it. He’s a sensitive, caring guy with a big romantic streak, I tell ya.)
Heather, hang in there on the weight thing. Work on the lifestyle parts at your own speed, and I’ll bet you see changes through the year.
Me, I’m hoping the midwife can find something WRONG with me at the 6week check, just so I can take some miracle drug that peels off 70 pounds in a week. Seriously. It’s depressing to realize you’re really, really healthy, and just fat for no good reason.
Karen Sugarpants
I feel your pain – it’s a busy season, that’s for sure. Lots going on here and I’ve put off the gym but am extremely active due to the new addition, so whatever works!
Mr. OMSH
I just bought a Harley! I am so giddy.
Thought I would put that out there for all of you in the rest of the world.
Vanessa
OMSH – I’m trying very hard not to hate you. Its not nice of me to hate you. Excuse me while I go repeat that to myself about 325314 times, give or take.
Next year is my last year at university too. We’re planning an October wedding, so I’ll graduate in May and be married 5 months later. Can I borrow your mom during my senior year?
Liz C – I’m seriously considering it. Really. I am. Cause I’m soooo sick of this already. I want a nice wedding, I want it work, and I don’t want people to fight, IS THAT SO HARD?!
OMSH
Vanessa – I know, I’m so sorry. I’d loan her out, but I’m pretty sure that she swore off weddings after mine.
I think people fighting is like the genetic makeup of planning a wedding. I can’t be certain…but I tend to remember being a bit of a bridezilla myself about 30 seconds before walking down the aisle; y’know, about to faint.
Gingembre
Vanessa – I third the suggestion to elope/City Hall type wedding. My husband and I got married at City Hall on a Friday morning, with his best friend, my sister and my mom there. Then we had a very easy going, potluck party with friends the next day. Simplest thing ever, very cheap (I’d much rather spend all that “wedding” money on a house or whatnot myself!) and drama free. Going on seven years later, I can tell you that our lack of a “big” thing has not harmed us in any way! :-) And should I ever want the “big” wedding, we can always renew our vows, which is def. a way less stressful situation to plan such a big event for.
Hope it goes well for you whatever you decide!